Grateful for age...

I just want to say how grateful I am that we all get older. with age comes wisdom- hopefully. I know I complain about being "old" sometimes, but I don't really mean it. I'm not old and I know it. Mostly I just say those things because my life has not followed the map I had drawn out. But I am actually very happy about that. I have learned so much and met people I never would have met had I taken my own very narrow minded path.
Tonight I had an interesting experience - well it was mostly in my own head. I found myself in the middle of a very shallow conversation with several girls under the age of 21...and just in the next room was an 85 yr old piano player who is incredible. So much life experience. Part of me, a large part of me would have rather been in that room talking to him- but I did learn a few things right where I was.
I was sitting peacefully by myself reading my lesson for gospel doctrine when I was joined by three girls. Now before I proceed let me just say that I do in fact like these girls. They are fun cute girls- however they lack maturity in some areas of their personality and that is so interesting for me to watch- from a distance of course.
These girls were talking to me and since I do love to pick people's brains I listened intently- people fascinate me- plus like I said, I like these girls. anyway- the boys came out to get drinks I think and the flirting began. (it was only 2 boys and 2 girls) It went on for only a few minutes and then the boys went back to their singing. Soon after, these two girls found multiple "reasons" to go into that room so they could draw the boys attention. As if everyone didn't know why they were really in there (so funny)...anyway they eventually just ended up sitting on the floor looking like high school freshman watching the varsity football team practice...and I said a silent prayer that I never look that desperate in my life. But I'm sure when I was there age I did at some point do something similar.
As they sat there I realized some things- That yes these boys are talented, good looking young men- but in spite of all that- I could never respect a man who was drawn in by such primitive tactics. And I realized, that's probably why I'm single still- I want a man who thinks with his brain- not his hormones. I want someone who doesn't just go for the easy target- perhaps I'll find one in the MBA program- I have high hopes that those men want a woman with brains and motivation. but I digress from my purpose....
Tonight I also learned that because of my age-or rather, experience (which I know is not nearly as vast as some) I have so much to be grateful for. I've learned that I am grateful for being the 5Th of 6 kids which taught me that I do not need to be- and probably usually will not be- the center of attention most of the time. I am grateful for my ability to be alone with my own thoughts and to be able to go to the bathroom by myself (which these and many girls cannot do). I am grateful that I can still think of others before myself (although I'm not always perfect- some days are better than others) I'm grateful that I have learned to make my own decisions- even if they are wrong sometimes. I am grateful that I have learned to deal with disappointment- life goes on and it usually goes on for the better. I am grateful for my siblings and my ability to get along with them all- I love my family. I am grateful for the ability to listen and really hear what people are saying and feeling. I am grateful for my education and love of learning. I am grateful for a sense of loyalty- and to be able to value others for who they are. I am grateful for a sense of humor-to enjoy life and not take the small things too seriously.
I am grateful to bob, the piano player, who is an inspiration to me. An inspiration of what can be accomplished in life if you recognize your gifts and blessings and use them for good. I hope that as I grow older I can grow wiser as well- I hope to always be an inspiration and a light to others, to share my experiences to benefit others. I know I'm not perfect, I have a lot to work on and places to mature but I'm also not dead yet- I have time, I just hope I always remember to use it to its fullest. Life is too short for regrets- so be happy and make others happy as well.

Do you not realize what day it is???

As many of you know, I am an avid watcher of wedding shows. TLC and WE are a great source for all your wedding pleasures. Tonight I was killing some time before my play rehearsal by watching "amazing wedding cakes". While watching, I rediscovered a huge pet peeve of mine. Several brides came on screen to look at their wedding cakes before their friends and family came in for the reception and I'm not kidding- they looked like they rolled out of bed and just threw on a wedding gown. I'm sorry- Do you not realize what day it is??? I don't care if you are not girly, don't wear a lot of make up, and don't own a blow dryer. It is your wedding day for heaven's sake- put some time and effort into your appearance. If your dress is elegant your hair and make up should be as well. If you can't do it yourself hire someone! If you are going to spend an exorbitant amount of money on a dress you can spend $50 to have your hair and make up done. YOU should wear the dress- it should not wear you.

Patience is a virtue

Ok my family is awesome. Especially my parents. For those of you who don't know, I LOVE to bake yummy delicious treats...and I do it a lot on Sunday. 1. because I am home 2. because I have time and 3. because there are people around to eat it. But most of the things I make are pretty involved and usually need to cool before I frost them or do the second step or whatever. However, my dad is not patient when it comes to delicious things. He is usually standing next to me when I take whatever it is out of the oven and immediately starts bugging me to cut into it. Usually my response is something like this, "Dad, its not finished. It still has to cool and be frosted" well- this was his response to waiting...if it had to cool before he could eat it- he was just going to help it along. I suppose patience is something we are still working on at our house...

Christmas Bells are Ringing...

Well, its almost that time of year again!! What better to get into the holiday spirit than going to see a show. There are two shows to see...this one at the Scera and A Christmas Carol at the Hale. Both are a really great way to get into the holiday spirit!!